Relationships today are a mess.. Fact is that faults come from both sides.. The essence of a relationship is not to have sex or just get married, the essence of it is to value each other, respect each other's opinions... Lets look at some causes of break-up's and how to handle them
1). COMMUNICATION :- This is a critical part in relationships, it requires both the male and female to know how to communicate better with each other.. most times, when you dont understand your woman, it can cause a whole lot of things... for example, you and your girlfriend are home alone on a nice weekend, then your friends call you to come and play golf.. this is what happens;
Boy :- Baby. i wanna go and play golf with my friends
Girl :- Ok
Trust me people, she doesnt want you to go, her "OK" does not mean that you should go but you should stay with her... The best time for you and your partner to have fun is during weekends, just the two of you, not with friends... this will make the relationship stronger
2). CHEATING :- Seriously, this is common among guyz, why would you date someone else when you have a girl who is faithful and loyal to you, most guyz would say "I WANNA TRY SOMETHING NEW, I'M TIRED OF HER"... This is not right.. ladies, the moment your guy stops being jealous, just know that there's something more to it.... A jealous guy is a faithful guy... Its when another guy takes your place, that's when u'll realize how u
lost the perfect woman... Staying faithful in your relationship is very important, you became her friend cos you liked her, you asked her out cos you had feelings for her, she ignored you because she believes all guyz are the same, you didnt give up on her cos you believe you have found the right one, she said "YES" to you cos you didnt give up on her... Stay on that fact... your girlfriend is the perfect one for you... Be faithful
3) QUARREL :- Quarreling in a relationship is normal.. but when a quarrel pops up, maturity needs to set in.. As a guy, you need to be the matured one,.. Settle the quarrel in a peaceful and matured manner, what will be your gain if you both start shouting on each other??... Even if she's at fault, just admit it is urz... when she's shouting and screaming, just shut up, when she's done, hug her tight and tell her u're sorry and you love her... the more you do this, she more she's love you.
4) FRIENDS :- Friends are the utmost cause of break-up's.... whenever you and your partner have a quarrel, pls dont go to friends for advise, friends might think they are telling you the right thing but they are actually spoiling it... the best way is to settle it urselves.... when she is sad, comfort her, when she needs someone to talk to, be there for her......
These are a few points about relationships today... make the right choice cos i believe a happy relationship will lead to a happy married life
1). COMMUNICATION :- This is a critical part in relationships, it requires both the male and female to know how to communicate better with each other.. most times, when you dont understand your woman, it can cause a whole lot of things... for example, you and your girlfriend are home alone on a nice weekend, then your friends call you to come and play golf.. this is what happens;
Boy :- Baby. i wanna go and play golf with my friends
Girl :- Ok
Trust me people, she doesnt want you to go, her "OK" does not mean that you should go but you should stay with her... The best time for you and your partner to have fun is during weekends, just the two of you, not with friends... this will make the relationship stronger
2). CHEATING :- Seriously, this is common among guyz, why would you date someone else when you have a girl who is faithful and loyal to you, most guyz would say "I WANNA TRY SOMETHING NEW, I'M TIRED OF HER"... This is not right.. ladies, the moment your guy stops being jealous, just know that there's something more to it.... A jealous guy is a faithful guy... Its when another guy takes your place, that's when u'll realize how u
lost the perfect woman... Staying faithful in your relationship is very important, you became her friend cos you liked her, you asked her out cos you had feelings for her, she ignored you because she believes all guyz are the same, you didnt give up on her cos you believe you have found the right one, she said "YES" to you cos you didnt give up on her... Stay on that fact... your girlfriend is the perfect one for you... Be faithful
3) QUARREL :- Quarreling in a relationship is normal.. but when a quarrel pops up, maturity needs to set in.. As a guy, you need to be the matured one,.. Settle the quarrel in a peaceful and matured manner, what will be your gain if you both start shouting on each other??... Even if she's at fault, just admit it is urz... when she's shouting and screaming, just shut up, when she's done, hug her tight and tell her u're sorry and you love her... the more you do this, she more she's love you.
4) FRIENDS :- Friends are the utmost cause of break-up's.... whenever you and your partner have a quarrel, pls dont go to friends for advise, friends might think they are telling you the right thing but they are actually spoiling it... the best way is to settle it urselves.... when she is sad, comfort her, when she needs someone to talk to, be there for her......
These are a few points about relationships today... make the right choice cos i believe a happy relationship will lead to a happy married life
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