I just thought of this and decided to share it with you guyz.... The best way to keep a perfect relationship is to Trust in each other.. Most guyz or ladies think that its better they lie to their partners and not hurt them than for them to tell the truth and hurt their feelings... Its wrong, relationship is based on not hiding anything from each other.. Its better to tell the truth and hurt their feelings than to lie cos they will later find out the truth... Relationships last longer when there is trust.. In a case where you think you need to tell him or her something in which will lead to break-up, its better to just tell a white lie which they will never find out, but it must be pure.. Girlz are sensitive to lies, when they eventually find out that you lied to them about something, it will be really hard for you to convince her that you lied to protect the relationship.. The best way is just have have a lie-fee relationship..
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Friday, October 30, 2015
15 CLEAR SIGNS THAT SHE'S CHEATING
10-15% of children are being raised by men who think they are the biological fathers, but are not. In an age of birth control, abortion and the fact that only a small percentage of acts of unprotected intercourse result in pregnancy, imagine how big the percentage of women probably is. You can’t trust any statistics, cause only a few will admit this fact when they are asked by a stranger. There are several reasons, why women are cheating their partner and I’m pretty sure that more than 50% are guilty of it. But how should you know if your girlfriend is loyal? We explore the most common signs that can help you tell whether your woman is cheating on you.
1. She Stops Caring
Women are wired to care about the smallest details about their men and relationships. She cares how many times you call and whether you make time for her. She gets angry with you when you forget those important dates in your relationship and will make a big fuss about it. So when your lady stops caring that you didn’t call and when she doesn’t throw a fit that you forgot all your special dates, then you have cause to worry.
2. Change In Appearance
When you were dating, your woman went to great lengths to look amazing for you and consistently made your heart stop. But after dating for a while or after marriage it seems that she doesn’t care so much like before, which is normal. Has your woman started again dressing a little more special out of the blue? Does she suddenly seem to pay extra attention to her appearance while leaving to meet up her girls, more than when going out with you? She may be out to impress and catch the attentions of another man.
3. Sexier Underwear
When a woman is involved with someone new, she often will go out and purchase sexier bras and panties – because she feels sexier. There is a pleasure women get
Thursday, October 29, 2015
HOW TO ASK A GIRL OUT
I used to be so shy that speaking to girls made me break out in a sweat. It was so bad that if I as much as opened my mouth to say, “Hi,” my vocal pitch went up several octaves. As you can imagine, this didn’t exactly help me woo the ladies (unless by “woo” you mean make them want to giggle, run away, and/or hide).
My troubles were a symptom of a common problem shared by many guys like you: I wasn’t confident in myself. Know the feeling? Let’s give your confidence (and dating life) a helpful shove in the right direction. This is how to ask a girl out and get a yes (almost) every time.
Ground Rules
Your Posture Should Scream Confidence
Most men guarantee a rejection before they even open their mouth because their appearance does not express confidence. Here are some simple cues to help you remember the do’s and don’ts of posture.
Do not:
Stare at the ground
Cross your legs/arms
Slump your shoulders
Fidget
Do:
Keep your chin up
Gaze forward
Shoulders down and back
Chest high
When in doubt, think about how much space you are taking up. Is it a lot, or a little? If you’re not taking up much space, it’s possible you are curled up in a sad little ball (which just doesn’t make you look confident). Take up as much space with your body as you can to reflect that you are comfortable in your body (and this hopefully goes without saying, but keep it within reason — don’t go lying down on the ground in the middle of the bar or anything crazy!)
The Clothes Make the Man
No, you don’t have to be donned in a freshly tailored suit when you ask a girl out. But that doesn’t mean you should look like a slob either. Dress in whatever
Wednesday, October 21, 2015
HOW TO STOP THINKING ABOUT YOUR EX
You can throw all your stuff in the back of your car and drive away. You can curl your texting-fingers into fists that you jam in your pockets. You can pack your calendar with yoga, coffee dates and cooking classes. You can buy a dog.
But you can’t stop thinking about your Ex.
Waking up from another nightmare in which you are victimized, abandoned, or ignored by your Ex you lay in the darkness. Memories of conversations you had, or wanted to have, play in your head like movies until it’s time to get up in the grey light of morning. Coffee. Shower. Driving. Working. No matter what you’re doing, throughout your day, the bulk of your mind is focused on your Ex. What they are doing, or not doing, or who they’re doing it with. The other ten percent of your attention steers you, on auto-pilot, through the rest of your life.
Your brain has been bound up in a tight, elaborate knot by an unsolvable riddle: “What the hell happened?” It works to free itself by wrestling with old memories or speculations, one by one. If it could only understand — emerge the victor from one of these skirmishes — you might be released from the cage of obsession. But there is no final victory. The memories are indestructible, and crowd together in a mob that has no end. Your mind is stuck, hemmed in on every side by ghosts of your former life.
You’ve moved on physically. But I don’t have to tell you that moving on mentally and emotionally is very, very difficult. You want to stop, but you can’t. If you could take a big bottle scrubber to your brain, and be done, you would. But it feels impossible to get away from your Ex when they, and their army of ghosts, have taken up residence in your own head.
Step one in your recovery is understanding that the thoughts about
But you can’t stop thinking about your Ex.
Waking up from another nightmare in which you are victimized, abandoned, or ignored by your Ex you lay in the darkness. Memories of conversations you had, or wanted to have, play in your head like movies until it’s time to get up in the grey light of morning. Coffee. Shower. Driving. Working. No matter what you’re doing, throughout your day, the bulk of your mind is focused on your Ex. What they are doing, or not doing, or who they’re doing it with. The other ten percent of your attention steers you, on auto-pilot, through the rest of your life.
Your brain has been bound up in a tight, elaborate knot by an unsolvable riddle: “What the hell happened?” It works to free itself by wrestling with old memories or speculations, one by one. If it could only understand — emerge the victor from one of these skirmishes — you might be released from the cage of obsession. But there is no final victory. The memories are indestructible, and crowd together in a mob that has no end. Your mind is stuck, hemmed in on every side by ghosts of your former life.
You’ve moved on physically. But I don’t have to tell you that moving on mentally and emotionally is very, very difficult. You want to stop, but you can’t. If you could take a big bottle scrubber to your brain, and be done, you would. But it feels impossible to get away from your Ex when they, and their army of ghosts, have taken up residence in your own head.
Step one in your recovery is understanding that the thoughts about
10 WAYS TO SHOW A WOMAN YOU LOVE HER
After you meet a woman here or in any other place and date her, you get to know her better. You probably start feeling closer to her and may even find yourself falling in love with her. But her feelings may still remain a mystery to you. You’re not even sure whether you’re doing things right. How can you get her to fall in love with you? Here are 10 ways that you can make a woman fall in love with you, and at the end of it, she’s sure to be crazy about you.
1. Display maturity
It’s always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself.
TIP: Women love it when a guy takes interest in their likes, dislikes, interests, family, childhood and so many other areas. Talking to her about herself is the best way to make her fall in love.
2. Romance her
Make her feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t cost a lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re thinking
1. Display maturity
It’s always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself.
TIP: Women love it when a guy takes interest in their likes, dislikes, interests, family, childhood and so many other areas. Talking to her about herself is the best way to make her fall in love.
2. Romance her
Make her feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t cost a lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re thinking
8 SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN WAYS TO HAVE THE BEST RELATIONSHIP OF YOUR LIFE
For many of us, our romantic relationships are one of the most central part of our lives. When things are going well, they are a source of total joy; but when they're not, our relationships can bring about heartache. Though ultimately, our happiness really depends on how we handle our relationships, and how we treat ourselves.
There are probably things we have done or said in our relationships this year that have made things a little more tough than we'd like. The good news is that we can change — and what better time to reflect and set intentions for a better relationship than the end of the year?
If you want this year to be one in which you have the best love life possible, consider making these relationship resolutions:
1. Look at your relationship with clear eyes.
In reality, not all romantic relationships are worth maintaining. So, start by taking an objective look at your current relationship. Is your partner abusive? Disrespectful? Overly jealous? Are you two codependent? Can you be your authentic self with your partner? Do you two bring out the best in one another?
As you reflect on these questions, determine if you should stay. Sometimes the best things you can do for your love life is to move on to greener pastures, whether that means taking some time to work on yourself, or to look for someone who will love you in the way you deserve.
2. Start with your own happiness.
A lot of people are misguided in their belief that they will
There are probably things we have done or said in our relationships this year that have made things a little more tough than we'd like. The good news is that we can change — and what better time to reflect and set intentions for a better relationship than the end of the year?
If you want this year to be one in which you have the best love life possible, consider making these relationship resolutions:
1. Look at your relationship with clear eyes.
In reality, not all romantic relationships are worth maintaining. So, start by taking an objective look at your current relationship. Is your partner abusive? Disrespectful? Overly jealous? Are you two codependent? Can you be your authentic self with your partner? Do you two bring out the best in one another?
As you reflect on these questions, determine if you should stay. Sometimes the best things you can do for your love life is to move on to greener pastures, whether that means taking some time to work on yourself, or to look for someone who will love you in the way you deserve.
2. Start with your own happiness.
A lot of people are misguided in their belief that they will
Tuesday, October 20, 2015
18 TYPES OF WOMEN THAT ARE MOST LIKELY TO CHEAT ON THEIR MAN
With female infidelity now at an all time high, more and more men who are married, or in committed relationships are asking themselves this question about their spouse of significant other. Below are 18 categories of women who are more likely to cheat on their spouse.
1. She has lots of close male friends “A significant number of affairs begin as close friendships with members of the opposite sex. The relationship may be platonic at the beginning, but chances are, it won’t stay that way. The closer the woman is to her platonic male friend, the more likely it is that he will eventually end up becoming her lover unless he’s gay.
2. She has girlfriends who are cheating on their mates. Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. Adults are susceptible to it, too. If a woman has one or more close female friends who are cheating on their husbands or boyfriends, she may eventually start cheating, too.
3. She has an excessive need for attention. A woman who constantly craves attention may cheat on her mate if she feels she’s not getting enough attention from him. She will be easy prey for any man who showers with her the attention she feels she deserves.
4. She’s materialistic. A materialistic woman is likely to have an affair with a wealthy man because of the material things he can provide. She can easily be
1. She has lots of close male friends “A significant number of affairs begin as close friendships with members of the opposite sex. The relationship may be platonic at the beginning, but chances are, it won’t stay that way. The closer the woman is to her platonic male friend, the more likely it is that he will eventually end up becoming her lover unless he’s gay.
2. She has girlfriends who are cheating on their mates. Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. Adults are susceptible to it, too. If a woman has one or more close female friends who are cheating on their husbands or boyfriends, she may eventually start cheating, too.
3. She has an excessive need for attention. A woman who constantly craves attention may cheat on her mate if she feels she’s not getting enough attention from him. She will be easy prey for any man who showers with her the attention she feels she deserves.
4. She’s materialistic. A materialistic woman is likely to have an affair with a wealthy man because of the material things he can provide. She can easily be
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